Happy ShoesDay! This summer we are reminiscing on our favorite and least favorite shoes and what they meant for us. The stories about those shoes tell a lot about us. You can read about athletic Mary Janes here and platform wedge espadrilles here. For a delightful summer read, may I recommend the delightful book Love, Loss, and What I Wore by Ilene Beckerman. Join me as I remember my favorite flat: the Sam & Libby bow.
I remember the Sam & Libby bow flat craze like it was yesterday. It was perfect with my high school uniform skirt, or jeans, a dress, or literally, whatever. At first I had only a few pairs in basic colors: black leather, and white leather. But then I got them in the baby pink leather. One summer I got a job at Mervyn’s, and picked up a bunch of knock-off’s with my associate discount. Are you ready? To my collection, I added black patent leather (with ribbon bows), black suede, and teal suede.
These babies took me through the late 80s and into the early to mid 90s, even. They were perfect for school, church, and work. Just a bit casual in their whimsy, and yet appropriate for more dressy situations such as an interview, or a wedding reception. And, those cute pink boxes! Perfect for storing photos, letters, and other ephemera.
During this time, I let my athletic shoes expire, being that I didn’t have to take P.E. anymore. (My two sports require their own shoes.) I do recall my good friend in college saying “I don’t know anyone who doesn’t own a pair of tennis shoes.” Later, I would pick up some classics- tune in next week!
I also ventured into another ballerina flat, the kind with loops for ankle straps. I had white leather, and black leather. I would switch out the leather straps for actual ribbon. The perfect outlet for my INFP, Enneagram 4 (wing 2), creative introvert self. I remember even wearing white ribbons with black music notes on them, ha ha. I was so upset when 9 west discontinued the ankle strap ballet flat. Any others are just not the same.
My writer’s journey would later lead me to the style statement quest- the style statement being more of a mission statement embedded within style words. The book suggested statements such as Sacred Dramatic, and Refined Treasure. What I found so interesting in exploring my own style statement, was that many words which appealed to me were from shoe style names and Etsy store names. What’s your Style Statement? I do encourage this exercise in self-discovery, if you haven’t done this type of thing before. Style Statement: Live by Your Own Design is by Danielle LaPorte and Carrie McCarthy.
Sam & Libby came back last summer for a hot minute. But even in Target, I felt they were overpriced. I’ve moved on to the grown up Mary Jane. But I remember these shoes oh so fondly, as they were popular during my formative years. You might say that I found myself in them.
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